In most people's job hunting experience, there is more or less job hunting anxiety. Some are anxious because they have submitted hundreds of resumes without any response; Some are anxious because they are eager to enter a company, but their own abilities are insufficient; Some are anxious because there is no following after each interview.
At work, when we face promotion and salary increase, we might as well give up the me-centered thinking: "Why not me", but spend more thinking on the people or things around us: "Why him?"